4 Ways to Help Your Partner Quit
Smoking
If your
spouse or partner has decided to quit smoking for good, you can
play a very important role in helping him or her. Not only are
they doing themselves a big favor by bidding farewell to this
habit, they are helping you and your family as well because of
the harmful effects of second hand smoke.
Here are
some simple ways to help your loved one quit
smoking.
Join
Him or Her
If you
are a smoker, then by joining him, your chances for quitting
can increase manifold as you get instant support from someone
close to you. Even if you are not a smoker, there surely must
be an area in your life on which you have been meaning to work
and hence you can make that your goal. It could be losing
weight, exercising more, meditating or cutting back or
abandoning alcohol. Whatever it may be, start helping your
partner quit smoking by setting goals for yourself too. So in
case he feels the urge to smoke a cigarette, you can help him
by modeling how you too are staying away from brownies and
French fries.
Keep
Him Away from Triggers and Triggers Away from
Him
Some
people or situations can be triggers for wanting to smoke
again. As a way to help him quit smoking, try to make plans
that do not revolve around friends who smoke or places where
everyone is happily puffing away. Remove ashtrays and other
stuff from around the house which can serve as constant
reminders of the bad habit. Unsubscribe from smoker promotional
emails and mailings that send discount coupons and other
incentives to continue smoking.
Get
Busy
Enroll
in a cooking class or learn ballroom dancing together. It may
not be a magic pill, but it may help you get his mind off
smoking and in to some other creative outlet.
Focus
on the Positive
Help him
quit smoking by clipping out articles (or emailing them to him)
about the financial and health benefits of kicking the habit.
Of course, he may know all of it already, but subtle reminders
can act as motivation and may just make the difference between
lighting up another cigarette or not.
Many
studies suggest that working towards any goals becomes easier
if done with someone. That’s what Weight Watchers is based on
as they say people who join with a friend are thrice as more
likely to stick with the program and hence lose weight and keep
it off. The same applies to helping someone quit smoking. Give
them the support, the shoulder they need and the companion they
want to go out and enjoy life with.
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